Are You Fit To Love?

Is the most important question you`ll ever ask yourself? � Let`s face it, our relationships are extremely important. � Yet, often they are the cause of pain and struggle. � Single or not, societal standards convince us that we can have it all. � Much of the available relationship advice compels us to go after everything we want. � Sadly, for many it is not working. � Climbing divorce rates and more singles seeking love are proof that our attitudes are counterproductive. Our expectations have become highly unrealistic. � Rarely do we look in the mirror and ask: Am I fit to love? � Today's relationships are failing because of deterioration of character.

� It is time we made a point of building long-term relationship success based on the strength of our characters, instead of clever-minded relationship strategies.

Great relationships require great characters. � We simply must become better people for each other. � Becoming fit to love is a powerful wake-up call for the brave. � It will dramatically improve our relationships or our chances of finding love.

The happiest people are those in exceptional relationships. � They are heavily invested in their most valuable asset: their relationship and have an abundance of life`s most precious commodity: love. � They all have one thing in common: they are fit to love. � At the heart of all exceptional relationships are three universal principles: mutual respect, moral responsibility and authenticity and here is what it means:

Mutual Respect: Your partner is just as important as you.

Our partner`s dreams and hopes are as important as our own. � This principle requires us to think of our partner as our equal. � Given that our generation has made history as ambassadors of our ��me first�� society, we are more concerned with getting what we want. � For Bill, everything revolves around golfing. � He spends every weekend at the golf course while his wife, Jane, looks after their two small children. � Extra money from their already tight budget is spent on Bill`s hobby. � Stuck at home with toddlers, Jane has little freedom to do or buy anything special. � Despite Jane`s complaints Bill seems completely aloof to the fact that he is disrespectful.

Relationship conflicts arise because of different perspectives. � Lovers argue over who is right, instead solving the issue in their mutual bes